How to get people to visit my sites?

Greetings All, Shardvixen hereeeeeeeee
Ok this blog thing is harder than I thought.  I thought I just write and people would read.  Guess not. Maybe it is just me.  I am surrounded through space with a Beware Don't Tread Near Sign.  Maybe I am only great inside my own head.(that is defiantly true).  I think I am creative, funny and special but my biggest fan is me, then my son.  Sometimes my daughter thinks I am awesome, ok she thinks I am awesome most of the time but isn't interested in this...thing I am doing.  Neither are many of my friends.  Wait I don't have many of them either. Since I am a fool, a noob and a nobody it is hard to get others interested in me. and I don't say these things to get people to feel sympathy for me.  It is a fact.
  Just like saying I am fat.  I have a lot a fat on me, damn soda.  I did it to myself for various reasons and I battle with eating disorder every second of the day.  I am ugly but this is not a personal perception. I only see a foxy fox when I look at myself or a really old stranger depending on my moon.  Other people my whole like have told me I am ugly.  I could fix it but I rather like myself probably more than I should.  Physical things can be fixed but if you are dumb that would be a bit harder.  I am a ditz but a rather smart one.  Ask me about it sometime.
People generally don't like me upon meeting me, like I smell bad.( I don't I smell like vanilla and roses, I check every time I leave the house).  Those who stick around find out just how special I am and tend to be friends forever or just causal acquaintances for ever.  You know the type, They say hi will chat for a bit but won't got to lunch or hang out with you for a long time.  Won't help yo out and tend to avoid any emotional deepness.  I attract scammers like you would believe, It is because I am old, fat, and ugly.  They believe I am easy target.
The thing about scammers is if a person tells you how beautiful you are and how much they want to get to know you and that doesn't happen much in your life, then you should get ready to be conned.
Another big sign is if they don't want to tell you about themselves because they would so much rather talk to you because they understand or if they give you vague information. Of course the big sign is when they ask for money and the really good ones won't ask for it right out.
I don't need friends that badly.  Nor do I need followers that badly.  I won't pay for followers so others will follow.  I rather be all alone in my world. I only need a couple of the right people to follow me and share me to the world.  So how to get follows?  Let me know if you know.
See you on the flipside.( here's a quick funny, there is a game developer company called the Flipside.  I might have to change me good bye.)